As the owner at some point of both Harley Road King Special (114") and an R18 FE, my impression of riding both at the same time was as follows.
1. At idle, the R18 shakes much less than HD, with the exception of R18 starting bucking obviously
2. Until 2500 RPM R18 shakes less than HD
3. From 2500 to 3000 RPM vibrations are comparable
4. Above 3000 RPM R18 shakes more than HD, not by much but noticeable.
As both bikes are cruisers/tourers and not sport bikes, I only get over 3000 RPM when accelerating quickly. 70 mph, the speed limit, in 6th gear is also below 3000 RPM. So in real life R18 shakes definitely no more than HD with 114 engine, probably less.
I believe that the whole story about "shaking" is inflated by bloggers / reviewers, who are probably not that arm length from competitors. Like many other fairy tales about R18