I haven't had any problems with Commander IIs on my Victory Cross Country or the new Michelin IIIs now on my R18 Classic. Many cross country trips in all types of weather to include "bow wave" deep water and slushy snow covering mountain two lanes to Interstates with good wear, predictable handling during "spirited" riding to include "peg to peg" handling expectations, etc. Worst "cruiser" tire for me was the original Dunlop that routinely kicked out as you describe your Michelin experience and also would easily lock up when almost stopped on any kind of damp pavement (I'm a fairly proficient rider that isn't ham fisted with throttle or brakes), that was much improved with the Dunlop 3 and 4 versions.
Anyway, we all have our favorites and while I know they all can be pushed to amazing levels that I likely will never surpass, I too wouldn't spend money on one that just didn't make me feel connected with that consistency that allows me to trust it. Good luck and before they go away maybe try + and - a few LBS to see the results as air pressure does impact wet riding tremendously (play with the math formulas used in hydroplaning calculations, it's very informative).
Let us know how the new tires work for you
Anyway, we all have our favorites and while I know they all can be pushed to amazing levels that I likely will never surpass, I too wouldn't spend money on one that just didn't make me feel connected with that consistency that allows me to trust it. Good luck and before they go away maybe try + and - a few LBS to see the results as air pressure does impact wet riding tremendously (play with the math formulas used in hydroplaning calculations, it's very informative).
Let us know how the new tires work for you